I’ve been pondering the art of motherhood, and really struggled to put words together that would bless and encourage Moms (and Dads) this Mothers/Fathers Day season.
Why the struggle? Well, if you know me at all, then you know I don’t like to sugar coat, and I tend to way over think things. So my brutally honest and over thought out approach to life didn’t seem to be a good way to write about parenthood on Mothers Day. (I know Mother’s Day has passed, I’ve been trying to write this blog for a week now!). Nonetheless I feel urged by the Lord, to write about the subject.
I don’t feel urged to write about parenthood because I’m an expert, just the opposite.
My 33 years of experience have mainly taught me that I don’t know much about parenting.
I’m sure this sounds strange. But truthfully I only really know two things about parenting. Can you see why I was conflicted in writing about this subject?
On Facebook, Instagram and Pinterest we only see the pretty part of parenting. Where people look like experts, with no real struggles.
The real issues of parenthood press us to the point where we realize we are not qualified for this role in life. Because truthfully we don’t know what the H (heck) we are doing!
If I were to put a Mom resume together, I could list a thousand amazing things and still not be qualified.
So what qualifies us?
Jesus is our resume.
The number one thing I know about parenting is this: I am the most qualified, the most accomplished Mom when I realize how much I need Jesus—when I trust my kids to the work of grace—to the work of the cross.
In situations involving our children, my husband and I can talk, fret and discuss the issue for hours, and we always reach the same conclusion. And this is the second thing I know—that Jesus is enough.
Yes, all my years of parenting humbly bring me to the truth of these two conclusions.
1. Jesus, not my skills or knowledge qualifies me, and you, to be an excellent parent.
2. Jesus fills in every gap, His love, faithfulness, mercy and grace are enough for every parenting situation.
Please be encouraged to give yourself a break—life is messy. We are all in process. It’s not about getting through life perfectly. It’s about relationship with Jesus—living in His grace and love. He does not expect perfection just submission. And when we realize only He can qualify us—the pressure is off—we find rest and freedom.
Following are a portion of lyrics from a song I love, titled Touch the Sky, by Hillsong United.
My heart beating,
my soul breathing.
I found my life when
I laid it down.
I touch the sky when
my knees hit the ground.
Treasure these truths…
1. We find life and it’s answers for parenting, and any other situation, as we lay everything down.
2. In Jesus there are no mistakes, His grace causes us to only fall upward.
3. We reach our highest when we bow our lowest.
Link to the song http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y1RQciil7B0&sns=em
Here are some pics of my wonderful Mothers Day. We had a rooftop party, with good conversation, great food prepared by my kids and we might even of Danced! This is us on a good day. My kids are no where near perfect, but they are all masterpieces.
My daughter beautifully set up the rooftop of her downtown Meridian apartment
The gangs almost all here, my oldest son and his family didn’t make it So cute
The Boys explored
Most of the Forests are fearless
I got to dance with my sons and my husband My baby!
Baby Robin held by auntie Maddie, talking to uncle Trent
Me and my love
Robin and her Mama Kaila
Five of my seven kids!
Thanks for reading!